Vanessa Donaldson, Military Spouse Transitional Coach

[{“text”:”foreign”,”start”:7.2,”duration”:2.78},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:20.31,”duration”:26.549},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:51.61,”duration”:4.93},{“text”:”[Applause]”,”start”:53.45,”duration”:26.19},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:56.54,”duration”:25.96},{“text”:”thank you”,”start”:79.64,”duration”:3.15},{“text”:”foreign”,”start”:82.5,”duration”:1.97},{“text”:”[Applause]”,”start”:82.79,”duration”:6.959},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:84.47,”duration”:5.279},{“text”:”good morning good afternoon good evening”,”start”:90.36,”duration”:6.18},{“text”:”wherever you are in the world it’s Dr”,”start”:93.36,”duration”:6.6},{“text”:”Jan fortman with relationship matters TV”,”start”:96.54,”duration”:5.7},{“text”:”I hope everyone is having a beautiful”,”start”:99.96,”duration”:4.699},{“text”:”blessed morning afternoon or evening”,”start”:102.24,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”wherever you are in the world”,”start”:104.659,”duration”:5.5},{“text”:”well today is a wonderful day it’s 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but”,”start”:142.98,”duration”:3.36},{“text”:”they’re getting I mean they’re not”,”start”:145.08,”duration”:3.44},{“text”:”getting snow but they’re getting rain”,”start”:146.34,”duration”:4.619},{“text”:”and she said here in Southern California”,”start”:148.52,”duration”:6.34},{“text”:”so I reminded her of that song it never”,”start”:150.959,”duration”:7.5},{“text”:”rains in southern in sunny California so”,”start”:154.86,”duration”:6.659},{“text”:”we just both laughed but anyway so I’m”,”start”:158.459,”duration”:7.261},{“text”:”happy to see all of you here today and I”,”start”:161.519,”duration”:7.201},{“text”:”have this wonderful guest”,”start”:165.72,”duration”:7.5},{“text”:”she’s wonderful and uh I just love her”,”start”:168.72,”duration”:7.019},{“text”:”and let me tell you a little bit about”,”start”:173.22,”duration”:8.84},{“text”:”her before I bring her on her name is”,”start”:175.739,”duration”:9.36},{“text”:”Vanessa Donaldson”,”start”:182.06,”duration”:6.759},{“text”:”and she is a life coach”,”start”:185.099,”duration”:7.5},{“text”:”she coaches military spouses”,”start”:188.819,”duration”:7.2},{“text”:”uh and guess what”,”start”:192.599,”duration”:6.541},{“text”:”she’s a a I guess you could call her”,”start”:196.019,”duration”:5.22},{“text”:”digital Nomad but she can explain all of”,”start”:199.14,”duration”:4.44},{“text”:”that so I’m gonna bring her on and we’re”,”start”:201.239,”duration”:4.981},{“text”:”going to talk about where she is right”,”start”:203.58,”duration”:7.32},{“text”:”now and I’m jealous in a way”,”start”:206.22,”duration”:7.08},{“text”:”but they’re not jealous in a way but I’m”,”start”:210.9,”duration”:5.699},{“text”:”gonna bring the Vanessa on right now”,”start”:213.3,”duration”:7.38},{“text”:”hey Vanessa hello thank you Dr John”,”start”:216.599,”duration”:6.42},{“text”:”thanks for having me today”,”start”:220.68,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”uh it’s wonderful to see you and your”,”start”:223.019,”duration”:6.061},{“text”:”bright smile and 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if”,”start”:371.039,”duration”:4.081},{“text”:”that how how are we gonna cross the bar”,”start”:373.5,”duration”:3.24},{“text”:”I said you know what if they don’t take”,”start”:375.12,”duration”:3.72},{“text”:”us at the border we’ll just turn around”,”start”:376.74,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”figure out what we need to get and come”,”start”:378.84,”duration”:4.02},{“text”:”back the next day but we need to step”,”start”:380.52,”duration”:4.92},{“text”:”into it and experience it and go for it”,”start”:382.86,”duration”:5.459},{“text”:”so we did and we were very prepared we”,”start”:385.44,”duration”:4.92},{“text”:”had our two little pug our pups a”,”start”:388.319,”duration”:4.801},{“text”:”Chihuahua and a Pug and my brother’s dog”,”start”:390.36,”duration”:5.459},{“text”:”hopped in the van too a little husky so”,”start”:393.12,”duration”:5.16},{“text”:”we took him to my brother was literally”,”start”:395.819,”duration”:4.621},{“text”:”printing the vaccination paper because I”,”start”:398.28,”duration”:3.72},{“text”:”need your dogs paperwork if I’m taking”,”start”:400.44,”duration”:3.18},{“text”:”them we did a little power of attorney”,”start”:402,”duration”:3.36},{“text”:”too just to make sure in case they’re”,”start”:403.62,”duration”:5.1},{“text”:”like are you kidnapping this dog so off”,”start”:405.36,”duration”:5.279},{“text”:”we went and we went through one of the”,”start”:408.72,”duration”:4.199},{“text”:”borders crossing the quieter side not”,”start”:410.639,”duration”:4.261},{“text”:”Tijuana you got to join my van Life”,”start”:412.919,”duration”:3.661},{“text”:”Community get all those tidbits on how”,”start”:414.9,”duration”:3.72},{“text”:”to Camp around here but yeah we went”,”start”:416.58,”duration”:4.44},{“text”:”right across minimal problem paid a”,”start”:418.62,”duration”:3.9},{“text”:”little visa thing the guy looked at our”,”start”:421.02,”duration”:4.32},{“text”:”passports he said these are expired you”,”start”:422.52,”duration”:4.739},{“text”:”know this is like uh you were in Mexico”,”start”:425.34,”duration”:4.919},{“text”:”City like a year ago or something and”,”start”:427.259,”duration”:5.16},{“text”:”it’s expired I said okay well what do we”,”start”:430.259,”duration”:4.201},{“text”:”have to do to renew and that was it we”,”start”:432.419,”duration”:3.241},{“text”:”renewed and we were through the water”,”start”:434.46,”duration”:3.84},{“text”:”through the border and we have been in”,”start”:435.66,”duration”:4.62},{“text”:”Baja for over a month I thought I would”,”start”:438.3,”duration”:4.26},{“text”:”be doing the show with you back in the”,”start”:440.28,”duration”:4.259},{“text”:”U.S side because I thought oh getting to”,”start”:442.56,”duration”:3.3},{“text”:”the beginning of March we’ll be heading”,”start”:444.539,”duration”:3.541},{“text”:”back to from California back to our home”,”start”:445.86,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”in Florida but no the van life has a lot”,”start”:448.08,”duration”:5.82},{“text”:”of twists and turns and windy roads and”,”start”:450.9,”duration”:5.34},{“text”:”uh one-way trips but yeah today was”,”start”:453.9,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”quite a quite a shocker we are like in”,”start”:456.24,”duration”:4.679},{“text”:”the middle of the Baja desert there’s”,”start”:458.58,”duration”:5.339},{“text”:”nothing for probably 400 kilometers I”,”start”:460.919,”duration”:4.801},{“text”:”started driving and took over the Wheel”,”start”:463.919,”duration”:3.9},{“text”:”from my husband and I was speeding like”,”start”:465.72,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”crazy he’s like what are you doing the”,”start”:467.819,”duration”:3.301},{“text”:”van is swerving he’s prepping our dinner”,”start”:469.5,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”in the back he’s got our our chicken”,”start”:471.12,”duration”:4.199},{“text”:”right here and the pot marinated for”,”start”:473.28,”duration”:4.22},{“text”:”dinner”,”start”:475.319,”duration”:2.181},{“text”:”and fresh cilantro from the local market”,”start”:477.8,”duration”:5.32},{“text”:”I love the fruits and veggies here and”,”start”:480.599,”duration”:4.081},{“text”:”he just kept saying Slow Down slow down”,”start”:483.12,”duration”:3.6},{“text”:”I said he said what is your deal I said”,”start”:484.68,”duration”:3.72},{“text”:”I have an appointment with Dr Jay today”,”start”:486.72,”duration”:3.599},{“text”:”and I need some internet and I thought”,”start”:488.4,”duration”:3.72},{“text”:”we would you know ping ping I thought we”,”start”:490.319,”duration”:4.141},{“text”:”would hit that Mark it never came so I”,”start”:492.12,”duration”:4.56},{“text”:”apologize I tried to log on a few”,”start”:494.46,”duration”:4.139},{“text”:”minutes early but I was literally”,”start”:496.68,”duration”:4.44},{“text”:”running around this uh truck stop it’s”,”start”:498.599,”duration”:4.861},{“text”:”like a ranch truck stop and talking to”,”start”:501.12,”duration”:3.66},{“text”:”people in Spanish I don’t even speak”,”start”:503.46,”duration”:2.88},{“text”:”Spanish and I’m holding up my phone”,”start”:504.78,”duration”:4.74},{“text”:”internet internet and she said 20 pesos”,”start”:506.34,”duration”:5.879},{“text”:”I’m like take my money so yeah I paid”,”start”:509.52,”duration”:4.379},{“text”:”for some internet I gave her my”,”start”:512.219,”duration”:3.361},{“text”:”phone they don’t even give you the login”,”start”:513.899,”duration”:3.121},{“text”:”because I guess they realize you know”,”start”:515.58,”duration”:3.12},{“text”:”it’ll like you know screenshot it to the”,”start”:517.02,”duration”:3.36},{“text”:”world or something so she had to take my”,”start”:518.7,”duration”:3.899},{“text”:”phone you know punch it in I said just”,”start”:520.38,”duration”:5.519},{“text”:”as long as it works please so yeah you”,”start”:522.599,”duration”:5.401},{“text”:”just have to be open to whatever but”,”start”:525.899,”duration”:3.781},{“text”:”thank you so much for having me and I”,”start”:528,”duration”:3.3},{“text”:”hope the connection stays we have”,”start”:529.68,”duration”:3.9},{“text”:”actually like 40 minutes because it cuts”,”start”:531.3,”duration”:4.7},{“text”:”off after”,”start”:533.58,”duration”:2.42},{“text”:”it’s all part of the adventure but we’ve”,”start”:536.3,”duration”:4.479},{“text”:”had so much fun we had to extend here we”,”start”:538.62,”duration”:4.08},{“text”:”were not ready to head to that rainy”,”start”:540.779,”duration”:3.361},{“text”:”weather you’re talking about so we would”,”start”:542.7,”duration”:2.699},{“text”:”just stay on a beach stay a little”,”start”:544.14,”duration”:3.6},{“text”:”longer you can camp on any public beach”,”start”:545.399,”duration”:5.161},{“text”:”in Mexico for free so you find a nice”,”start”:547.74,”duration”:5.099},{“text”:”spot and you just put out that awning my”,”start”:550.56,”duration”:3.66},{“text”:”husband’s on the paddle board fishing”,”start”:552.839,”duration”:3.241},{“text”:”catching our dinner and you know every”,”start”:554.22,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”afternoon should we leave tomorrow we’ll”,”start”:556.08,”duration”:3.9},{“text”:”see you tomorrow we’ll figure it out it”,”start”:558,”duration”:3.72},{“text”:”says that on my website we’ll figure it”,”start”:559.98,”duration”:3.479},{“text”:”out and the next day we look up the”,”start”:561.72,”duration”:4.559},{“text”:”waves are calm the sun is out we’re like”,”start”:563.459,”duration”:4.56},{“text”:”should we stay another day here uh-huh”,”start”:566.279,”duration”:4.921},{“text”:”and that’s how we roll roll I’d say”,”start”:568.019,”duration”:4.981},{“text”:”rolling with Russ and Vanessa rolling”,”start”:571.2,”duration”:4.139},{“text”:”with RV”,”start”:573,”duration”:5.1},{“text”:”have you been doing the bad life what”,”start”:575.339,”duration”:5.101},{“text”:”made you you know like what made you all”,”start”:578.1,”duration”:5.46},{“text”:”just give up stationary house 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you build it your”,”start”:662.64,”duration”:4.259},{“text”:”configuration how you want it the one we”,”start”:664.5,”duration”:4.5},{“text”:”got was just ready-made kind of like”,”start”:666.899,”duration”:4.921},{“text”:”TurnKey we just went to look at it from”,”start”:669,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”another owner you know got a good deal”,”start”:671.82,”duration”:4.199},{“text”:”we were happy to find it on a phone app”,”start”:673.68,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”I mean it was just Serendipity so yeah”,”start”:676.019,”duration”:5.341},{“text”:”we got the van and ended up renting our”,”start”:678.66,”duration”:4.679},{“text”:”house to a military family all within”,”start”:681.36,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”the same time around the pandemic and”,”start”:683.339,”duration”:5.161},{“text”:”then when California said lockdown close”,”start”:685.14,”duration”:4.56},{“text”:”your doors”,”start”:688.5,”duration”:3.3},{“text”:”put your mask on don’t leave we 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