Relationship Matters tv -Rufus Stephens, Motivational Speaker, Author, Voice Over Talent

[{“text”:”all right”,”start”:11.219,”duration”:2.601},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:26.26,”duration”:26.45},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:57.48,”duration”:4.93},{“text”:”[Applause]”,”start”:59.32,”duration”:12.759},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:62.41,”duration”:9.669},{“text”:”thank you”,”start”:76.28,”duration”:3},{“text”:”foreign”,”start”:79.439,”duration”:3},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:84.01,”duration”:6.33},{“text”:”[Applause]”,”start”:88.66,”duration”:7.13},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:90.34,”duration”:5.45},{“text”:”good morning good afternoon good evening”,”start”:96.259,”duration”:6.341},{“text”:”wherever you are in the world it’s Dr”,”start”:98.88,”duration”:7.64},{“text”:”Jan fortman with relationship matters TV”,”start”:102.6,”duration”:7.04},{“text”:”hope everyone is having a beautifully”,”start”:106.52,”duration”:7.3},{“text”:”blessed morning afternoon or evening”,”start”:109.64,”duration”:6.759},{“text”:”I know I am”,”start”:113.82,”duration”:5.46},{“text”:”um I’m here in Chicago and you 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that”,”start”:195.78,”duration”:5.539},{“text”:”so guess what”,”start”:197.959,”duration”:5.5},{“text”:”we have”,”start”:201.319,”duration”:5.161},{“text”:”a guest that you all are probably”,”start”:203.459,”duration”:4.981},{“text”:”familiar with”,”start”:206.48,”duration”:3.88},{“text”:”because”,”start”:208.44,”duration”:7.439},{“text”:”he was on this show last week”,”start”:210.36,”duration”:9.299},{“text”:”and you know I told you you know uh Mr”,”start”:215.879,”duration”:6.78},{“text”:”Rufus Thomas got all kinds of jobs I”,”start”:219.659,”duration”:5.401},{“text”:”mean he’s an author he’s a motivational”,”start”:222.659,”duration”:3.781},{“text”:”speaker”,”start”:225.06,”duration”:3.679},{“text”:”he’s a minister”,”start”:226.44,”duration”:5.939},{“text”:”and so last week we talked about the”,”start”:228.739,”duration”:5.681},{“text”:”book that he and his daughter wrote”,”start”:232.379,”duration”:6},{“text”:”together but this week we are 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on”,”start”:328.88,”duration”:4.539},{“text”:”you and your daughter and more so on”,”start”:331.8,”duration”:4.38},{“text”:”your daughter so but tonight”,”start”:333.419,”duration”:5.101},{“text”:”tell us about you you know what I want”,”start”:336.18,”duration”:4.019},{“text”:”to know”,”start”:338.52,”duration”:4.44},{“text”:”what made what did you do before you”,”start”:340.199,”duration”:5.521},{“text”:”became a motivational speaker”,”start”:342.96,”duration”:5.82},{“text”:”well you know I I was always I always”,”start”:345.72,”duration”:5.34},{“text”:”heard A Different Drummer than my”,”start”:348.78,”duration”:4.08},{“text”:”siblings they’re five of us”,”start”:351.06,”duration”:4.38},{“text”:”and uh three of the five are in”,”start”:352.86,”duration”:4.16},{“text”:”education the other one’s more”,”start”:355.44,”duration”:4.02},{“text”:”technically oriented he worked for Bell”,”start”:357.02,”duration”:3.76},{“text”:”South”,”start”:359.46,”duration”:4.38},{“text”:”um but I was 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