Dr. Janice Hooker Fortman

[{“text”:”foreign”,”start”:5.819,”duration”:3},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:20.73,”duration”:18.73},{“text”:”laughs”,”start”:38.34,”duration”:8.829},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:39.46,”duration”:7.709},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:50.69,”duration”:5.82},{“text”:”[Applause]”,”start”:53.41,”duration”:12.79},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:56.51,”duration”:9.69},{“text”:”thank you”,”start”:68.9,”duration”:4.259},{“text”:”back”,”start”:70.619,”duration”:2.54},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:73.33,”duration”:11.15},{“text”:”[Applause]”,”start”:82.77,”duration”:13.489},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:84.48,”duration”:15.24},{“text”:”good morning good afternoon good evening”,”start”:96.259,”duration”:7.741},{“text”:”wherever you are in the world it’s Dr”,”start”:99.72,”duration”:8.939},{“text”:”Jan fortman with relationship matters TV”,”start”:104,”duration”:7.06},{“text”:”I hope everyone is having a beautiful”,”start”:108.659,”duration”:5.341},{“text”:”morning afternoon or 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to”,”start”:152.22,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”talk about that we can I also had said”,”start”:153.72,”duration”:6.659},{“text”:”that if you wanted to go live in other”,”start”:157.2,”duration”:6.179},{“text”:”words be on the screen then you could do”,”start”:160.379,”duration”:6.061},{“text”:”that and I would send you a link so I”,”start”:163.379,”duration”:6.061},{“text”:”did get it I put that on Facebook you”,”start”:166.44,”duration”:4.86},{“text”:”know without the Facebook live so I just”,”start”:169.44,”duration”:3.48},{“text”:”put it on as a post”,”start”:171.3,”duration”:4.74},{“text”:”and I really didn’t get anyone to say”,”start”:172.92,”duration”:5.64},{“text”:”they wanted to come online”,”start”:176.04,”duration”:6.54},{“text”:”so you can put what you would like to”,”start”:178.56,”duration”:8.34},{“text”:”discuss in the chat and we can talk”,”start”:182.58,”duration”:6.659},{“text”:”about it I will answer your 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I”,”start”:258.419,”duration”:9.301},{“text”:”can’t see who’s on I can see that there”,”start”:264.54,”duration”:5.34},{“text”:”are people on but I can’t see your names”,”start”:267.72,”duration”:4.08},{“text”:”because guess what if I could see your”,”start”:269.88,”duration”:4.5},{“text”:”names I would call them call on you and”,”start”:271.8,”duration”:5.22},{“text”:”say whatever your name is”,”start”:274.38,”duration”:5.36},{“text”:”Patricia”,”start”:277.02,”duration”:2.72},{“text”:”so oh I see a comment”,”start”:280.5,”duration”:6},{“text”:”thank you”,”start”:284.639,”duration”:4.34},{“text”:”laughs”,”start”:286.5,”duration”:2.479},{“text”:”so Maxine Walker says why is Christmas”,”start”:291.36,”duration”:8.119},{“text”:”coming too soon all the commercials”,”start”:295.38,”duration”:7.68},{“text”:”Maxine I don’t know”,”start”:299.479,”duration”:7.541},{“text”:”Christmas now like I was saying today on”,”start”:303.06,”duration”:8.46},{“text”:”on uh my Facebook live that here 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I had my top down and I went for a”,”start”:324.919,”duration”:6.641},{“text”:”ride so now”,”start”:329.22,”duration”:6.78},{“text”:”it’s not Christmas it is too early to me”,”start”:331.56,”duration”:7.079},{“text”:”because usually here in the Midwest in”,”start”:336,”duration”:5.22},{“text”:”Chicago it’s snowing or it’s really”,”start”:338.639,”duration”:4.681},{“text”:”really really cold”,”start”:341.22,”duration”:6.24},{“text”:”and to go in a store and see Christmas”,”start”:343.32,”duration”:8.28},{“text”:”trees and what is that station that”,”start”:347.46,”duration”:7.62},{“text”:”started now playing Christmas music it’s”,”start”:351.6,”duration”:5.4},{“text”:”not even Thanksgiving yet”,”start”:355.08,”duration”:4.679},{“text”:”and I think it’s Hallmark just started”,”start”:357,”duration”:4.979},{“text”:”it’s Christmas shows”,”start”:359.759,”duration”:6.841},{“text”:”it is coming you right Maxine it is too”,”start”:361.979,”duration”:10.16},{“text”:”soon and these commercials are like”,”start”:366.6,”duration”:5.539},{“text”:”so right now I still have plants outside”,”start”:373.139,”duration”:10.261},{“text”:”and I’m watering the plants and”,”start”:379.56,”duration”:7.079},{“text”:”I have a wreath on the door and it’s all”,”start”:383.4,”duration”:4.019},{“text”:”about”,”start”:386.639,”duration”:2.641},{“text”:”the fall weather”,”start”:387.419,”duration”:4.62},{“text”:”so I don’t know I don’t know why it’s”,”start”:389.28,”duration”:5.4},{“text”:”too soon but what is this Renita says”,”start”:392.039,”duration”:4.821},{“text”:”here”,”start”:394.68,”duration”:5.82},{“text”:”you’re right Renita it’s never too early”,”start”:396.86,”duration”:6.88},{“text”:”to stimulate the economy”,”start”:400.5,”duration”:7.38},{“text”:”however let’s talk about the economy”,”start”:403.74,”duration”:6.06},{“text”:”now”,”start”:407.88,”duration”:5.159},{“text”:”you do get sticker shot when you go to”,”start”:409.8,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”the store”,”start”:413.039,”duration”:6.121},{“text”:”and not only do you get sticker shock”,”start”:414.84,”duration”:7.62},{“text”:”because things cost more but the sizes”,”start”:419.16,”duration”:5.58},{“text”:”are smaller”,”start”:422.46,”duration”:3.6},{“text”:”and”,”start”:424.74,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”just like I like Special K cereal”,”start”:426.06,”duration”:7.68},{“text”:”so I go in and I remember Special K”,”start”:430.02,”duration”:8.82},{“text”:”cereal a nice size box was 2.99 I went”,”start”:433.74,”duration”:8.519},{“text”:”in the store the other day it was 459.”,”start”:438.84,”duration”:6.24},{“text”:”the box was smaller and then when I”,”start”:442.259,”duration”:6.541},{“text”:”opened it up it it was like maybe three”,”start”:445.08,”duration”:6.959},{“text”:”fourths of the way full”,”start”:448.8,”duration”:6.36},{“text”:”now people talk about the economy”,”start”:452.039,”duration”:5.521},{“text”:”and they talk about the economy in the”,”start”:455.16,”duration”:3.659},{“text”:”United States”,”start”:457.56,”duration”:3.419},{“text”:”but Renita when they talk about”,”start”:458.819,”duration”:4.861},{“text”:”stimulating the economy”,”start”:460.979,”duration”:6.84},{“text”:”they say that people are spending more”,”start”:463.68,”duration”:5.7},{“text”:”money”,”start”:467.819,”duration”:3.541},{“text”:”and that’s bad”,”start”:469.38,”duration”:4.5},{“text”:”for the economy which I kind of don’t”,”start”:471.36,”duration”:4.2},{“text”:”understand”,”start”:473.88,”duration”:5.759},{“text”:”because it stimulating the economy to me”,”start”:475.56,”duration”:7.02},{“text”:”would be that we would be you know going”,”start”:479.639,”duration”:5.881},{“text”:”out and buying stuff and buying”,”start”:482.58,”duration”:4.5},{“text”:”Christmas stuff”,”start”:485.52,”duration”:3.48},{“text”:”but they say that that’s not a good”,”start”:487.08,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”thing for some reason so Renita if you”,”start”:489,”duration”:6.96},{“text”:”can explain that to me and the viewers”,”start”:492.12,”duration”:5.76},{“text”:”I would be very happy”,”start”:495.96,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”to hear that to hear that explanation”,”start”:497.88,”duration”:6.06},{“text”:”and”,”start”:501.24,”duration”:6.12},{“text”:”our economy we We complain about our”,”start”:503.94,”duration”:7.5},{“text”:”economy and of course we say that it’s”,”start”:507.36,”duration”:6.479},{“text”:”the political party or the president”,”start”:511.44,”duration”:5.099},{“text”:”that’s in now but”,”start”:513.839,”duration”:6.541},{“text”:”the the economy”,”start”:516.539,”duration”:3.841},{“text”:”the uh inflation is worldwide”,”start”:520.94,”duration”:10.12},{“text”:”it’s not just us and I think a lot of”,”start”:527.18,”duration”:8.5},{“text”:”people don’t understand that it’s not”,”start”:531.06,”duration”:7.98},{“text”:”just us and it’s not a political party”,”start”:535.68,”duration”:7.58},{“text”:”it doesn’t matter who’s in right now”,”start”:539.04,”duration”:6.96},{“text”:”Republicans Democrats”,”start”:543.26,”duration”:4.78},{“text”:”whoever”,”start”:546,”duration”:5.16},{“text”:”the economy or inflation”,”start”:548.04,”duration”:5.479},{“text”:”is horrible”,”start”:551.16,”duration”:6.119},{“text”:”worldwide I heard something today that I”,”start”:553.519,”duration”:7.421},{“text”:”think it’s in Germany or something their”,”start”:557.279,”duration”:7.801},{“text”:”inflation rate is 20 we are nowhere near”,”start”:560.94,”duration”:6.839},{“text”:”that so I think people should think”,”start”:565.08,”duration”:8.52},{“text”:”about that so Renita if you can tell me”,”start”:567.779,”duration”:8.341},{“text”:”or tell our audience”,”start”:573.6,”duration”:4.62},{“text”:”what”,”start”:576.12,”duration”:6.719},{“text”:”how do we stimulate the economy I would”,”start”:578.22,”duration”:10.02},{“text”:”appreciate it and uh Diggs we say hey”,”start”:582.839,”duration”:8.701},{“text”:”what’s up hey what’s up dicks got”,”start”:588.24,”duration”:4.8},{“text”:”something to say”,”start”:591.54,”duration”:3.66},{“text”:”put it in the chat”,”start”:593.04,”duration”:5.1},{“text”:”okay so Renita says”,”start”:595.2,”duration”:6.12},{“text”:”she was in a seminar yesterday given by”,”start”:598.14,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”her credit union”,”start”:601.32,”duration”:5.699},{“text”:”they advised against borrowing right now”,”start”:603.12,”duration”:8.1},{“text”:”as strongly encouraged deposits I.E”,”start”:607.019,”duration”:7.621},{“text”:”saving the speaker said they weren’t”,”start”:611.22,”duration”:5.82},{“text”:”running out of money but they need”,”start”:614.64,”duration”:6.5},{“text”:”deposits in order to lend”,”start”:617.04,”duration”:4.1},{“text”:”so if they’re not running out of money”,”start”:622.98,”duration”:5.419},{“text”:”so they’re not running out of money”,”start”:629.1,”duration”:6.38},{“text”:”then”,”start”:632.64,”duration”:2.84},{“text”:”how can they live I mean that’s just me”,”start”:635.64,”duration”:6.42},{“text”:”I don’t know well yeah I know taking out”,”start”:638.459,”duration”:7.681},{“text”:”a loan now is is difficult because the”,”start”:642.06,”duration”:6.719},{“text”:”interest rate has gone up”,”start”:646.14,”duration”:8.699},{“text”:”so far it’s not as high as it was”,”start”:648.779,”duration”:9.12},{“text”:”some years ago when it was like 15 and”,”start”:654.839,”duration”:6.601},{“text”:”16 so people you know it’s down way way”,”start”:657.899,”duration”:6.541},{“text”:”way way way down and now it’s inching up”,”start”:661.44,”duration”:5.88},{“text”:”but still it’s not as high as I can”,”start”:664.44,”duration”:8.1},{“text”:”remember that 15 and 16 but yeah”,”start”:667.32,”duration”:7.62},{“text”:”um if you can deposit some money I guess”,”start”:672.54,”duration”:4.26},{“text”:”you could do positive”,”start”:674.94,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”so many people have the money to deposit”,”start”:676.8,”duration”:8.099},{“text”:”and and so Renita if you”,”start”:679.92,”duration”:8.52},{“text”:”if if you are making deposits in the”,”start”:684.899,”duration”:5.101},{“text”:”credit union”,”start”:688.44,”duration”:4.7},{“text”:”and people”,”start”:690,”duration”:6.66},{“text”:”need to make a loan then they’re making”,”start”:693.14,”duration”:6.759},{“text”:”a loan to purchase something”,”start”:696.66,”duration”:5.7},{“text”:”but then they say”,”start”:699.899,”duration”:5.461},{“text”:”we’re making all of these purchases”,”start”:702.36,”duration”:6.78},{“text”:”and that’s affecting the economy in a”,”start”:705.36,”duration”:6.419},{“text”:”negative way”,”start”:709.14,”duration”:5.16},{“text”:”I don’t know”,”start”:711.779,”duration”:5.161},{“text”:”I don’t know”,”start”:714.3,”duration”:6.659},{“text”:”all I know is I am not buying as Maxine”,”start”:716.94,”duration”:5.16},{“text”:”was saying”,”start”:720.959,”duration”:6.241},{“text”:”any Christmas anything right now”,”start”:722.1,”duration”:8.46},{“text”:”so I want to ask a question”,”start”:727.2,”duration”:6.9},{“text”:”what do you think about what’s going on”,”start”:730.56,”duration”:5.1},{“text”:”politically”,”start”:734.1,”duration”:3.84},{“text”:”you don’t have to tell me if you’re a”,”start”:735.66,”duration”:5.7},{“text”:”Democrat or a Republican or an”,”start”:737.94,”duration”:6},{“text”:”independent”,”start”:741.36,”duration”:4.32},{“text”:”um they used to have the green party I”,”start”:743.94,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”don’t know if they have that anymore but”,”start”:745.68,”duration”:4.86},{“text”:”what do you think do you think do you”,”start”:747.72,”duration”:6.239},{“text”:”think that uh oh oh she says”,”start”:750.54,”duration”:6.299},{“text”:”Renita says I don’t get it either things”,”start”:753.959,”duration”:5.221},{“text”:”that’s so expensive yes they are yes”,”start”:756.839,”duration”:4.341},{“text”:”they are”,”start”:759.18,”duration”:5.219},{“text”:”so what do you think about politics”,”start”:761.18,”duration”:4.54},{“text”:”today”,”start”:764.399,”duration”:4.081},{“text”:”do you think that”,”start”:765.72,”duration”:5.7},{“text”:”um it’s business as usual”,”start”:768.48,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”or do you think”,”start”:771.42,”duration”:5.159},{“text”:”we’re going the wrong way”,”start”:773.76,”duration”:4.8},{“text”:”what do you think”,”start”:776.579,”duration”:5.82},{“text”:”as far as voting right now”,”start”:778.56,”duration”:6.779},{“text”:”do you have an opinion about”,”start”:782.399,”duration”:5.901},{“text”:”what’s happening with people”,”start”:785.339,”duration”:6.421},{“text”:”who are who want to vote or trying to”,”start”:788.3,”duration”:7.18},{“text”:”vote and they’re being intimidated you”,”start”:791.76,”duration”:5.819},{“text”:”think that’s a good thing do you think”,”start”:795.48,”duration”:5.4},{“text”:”like some of the politicians saying that”,”start”:797.579,”duration”:7.741},{“text”:”our democracy is at stake”,”start”:800.88,”duration”:6.66},{“text”:”so what are you what do you what do you”,”start”:805.32,”duration”:4.56},{“text”:”think about that uh I can tell you what”,”start”:807.54,”duration”:3.9},{“text”:”I think”,”start”:809.88,”duration”:5.519},{“text”:”I never thought I would see the day”,”start”:811.44,”duration”:6.18},{“text”:”that”,”start”:815.399,”duration”:3.961},{“text”:”people”,”start”:817.62,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”would be afraid like they used to be a”,”start”:819.36,”duration”:6.96},{“text”:”long time ago especially black people”,”start”:822.66,”duration”:6},{“text”:”but now it’s not just black people it’s”,”start”:826.32,”duration”:3.66},{“text”:”it’s”,”start”:828.66,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”anybody that’s I guess opposed to”,”start”:829.98,”duration”:6.06},{“text”:”whatever political party you were in”,”start”:832.44,”duration”:6.42},{“text”:”that they will be afraid to vote 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