Evelyn Wang, The Good Habit Coach

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me”,”start”:274.56,”duration”:2.4},{“text”:”anyway”,”start”:276,”duration”:4.479},{“text”:”i want to bring my guest on but let me”,”start”:276.96,”duration”:6.48},{“text”:”tell you a little bit about her before i”,”start”:280.479,”duration”:5.041},{“text”:”bring her on”,”start”:283.44,”duration”:4.08},{“text”:”her name is evelyn”,”start”:285.52,”duration”:2.72},{“text”:”t”,”start”:287.52,”duration”:2.8},{“text”:”wayne so let me tell you a little bit”,”start”:288.24,”duration”:3.76},{“text”:”about evelyn”,”start”:290.32,”duration”:4.52},{“text”:”she’s a board-certified instructor of”,”start”:292,”duration”:5.36},{“text”:”hypnotherapy she’s a certified”,”start”:294.84,”duration”:5.56},{“text”:”hypnotherapist for chronic diseases a”,”start”:297.36,”duration”:6.32},{“text”:”board certified nlp trainer board”,”start”:300.4,”duration”:6},{“text”:”certified master coach certified”,”start”:303.68,”duration”:4.239},{“text”:”biofeedback”,”start”:306.4,”duration”:4.32},{“text”:”a practice 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up”,”start”:342.479,”duration”:5.361},{“text”:”i want to be just like evelyn”,”start”:344.4,”duration”:3.44},{“text”:”well thank you”,”start”:348.639,”duration”:3.481},{“text”:”good thank you”,”start”:353.84,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”thanks for having me oh yes it’s so good”,”start”:355.759,”duration”:6.081},{“text”:”to finally meet you we had scheduled”,”start”:358.88,”duration”:6.72},{“text”:”everland and all kinds of things”,”start”:361.84,”duration”:5.44},{“text”:”happening to evelyn”,”start”:365.6,”duration”:3.439},{“text”:”happening to me”,”start”:367.28,”duration”:5.44},{“text”:”it’s happening but we are so excited to”,”start”:369.039,”duration”:7.361},{“text”:”have evelyn on today and as i said we’re”,”start”:372.72,”duration”:5.36},{“text”:”going to talk about”,”start”:376.4,”duration”:5.519},{“text”:”the relationships with our mothers”,”start”:378.08,”duration”:5.839},{“text”:”but first evelyn”,”start”:381.919,”duration”:5.521},{“text”:”your background is so 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