ENCORE The Townsends and The Armstrongs

[{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:0.71,”duration”:23.759},{“text”:”do”,”start”:36.719,”duration”:3},{“text”:”do”,”start”:50,”duration”:18.06},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:51.34,”duration”:16.72},{“text”:”well good evening everyone”,”start”:68.4,”duration”:7.28},{“text”:”i am dr janice looker fortman and i am”,”start”:72.159,”duration”:6},{“text”:”your host for this evening”,”start”:75.68,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”and this is the premiere show”,”start”:78.159,”duration”:4.64},{“text”:”of relationship”,”start”:80.96,”duration”:3.199},{“text”:”matters”,”start”:82.799,”duration”:3.921},{“text”:”first i want to thank everyone for being”,”start”:84.159,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”a part of my first show”,”start”:86.72,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”and all of those shows which are to”,”start”:89.439,”duration”:4.081},{“text”:”follow”,”start”:92,”duration”:3.92},{“text”:”we will be talking about all kinds of”,”start”:93.52,”duration”:4.32},{“text”:”relationships”,”start”:95.92,”duration”:4.64},{“text”:”and 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a”,”start”:382.08,”duration”:5.6},{“text”:”mess”,”start”:385.44,”duration”:2.24},{“text”:”yep that dude”,”start”:387.84,”duration”:4.479},{“text”:”and yeah he he i would be surprised if”,”start”:389.36,”duration”:4.959},{“text”:”you see him pop up on his screen we told”,”start”:392.319,”duration”:3.761},{“text”:”him not to but”,”start”:394.319,”duration”:5.041},{“text”:”he’s not going to do it”,”start”:396.08,”duration”:3.28},{“text”:”no problem you know he he’s welcome he’s”,”start”:401.12,”duration”:5.84},{“text”:”part of the family”,”start”:404,”duration”:4.88},{“text”:”so uh lakeisha you said you’re a”,”start”:406.96,”duration”:5.12},{“text”:”psychologist for chicago public schools”,”start”:408.88,”duration”:5.039},{“text”:”and so how long have you been working”,”start”:412.08,”duration”:4},{“text”:”with chicago public schools i just”,”start”:413.919,”duration”:8.361},{“text”:”completed my 21st year oh wow okay”,”start”:416.08,”duration”:6.2},{“text”:”let me say this when you move 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