The Mothers Day Show,

[{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:4.05,”duration”:27.229},{“text”:”he”,”start”:29.16,”duration”:5.119},{“text”:”he”,”start”:31.279,”duration”:3},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:34.91,”duration”:4.93},{“text”:”[Applause]”,”start”:36.75,”duration”:23.769},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:39.84,”duration”:22.6},{“text”:”he he”,”start”:60.519,”duration”:5.921},{“text”:”he he”,”start”:62.44,”duration”:4},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:67.77,”duration”:19.809},{“text”:”oh”,”start”:106.24,”duration”:3.879},{“text”:”hello good morning good afternoon good”,”start”:107.439,”duration”:5.161},{“text”:”evening wherever you are in the world”,”start”:110.119,”duration”:5.721},{“text”:”it’s Dr Jan Forman with relationship”,”start”:112.6,”duration”:6.64},{“text”:”matters TV hope everyone is having a”,”start”:115.84,”duration”:7.44},{“text”:”beautiful y blessed morning afternoon or”,”start”:119.24,”duration”:7.08},{“text”:”evening or early in the morning as one”,”start”:123.28,”duration”:9.4},{“text”:”of our guest is in and uh today is my”,”start”:126.32,”duration”:11.199},{“text”:”Mother’s Day show I have several well”,”start”:132.68,”duration”:6.839},{“text”:”not several I have let’s see one two”,”start”:137.519,”duration”:6.161},{“text”:”three four five awesome”,”start”:139.519,”duration”:9.521},{“text”:”awesome mothers moms moms to be single”,”start”:143.68,”duration”:7.919},{“text”:”women”,”start”:149.04,”duration”:4.36},{“text”:”grandmothers”,”start”:151.599,”duration”:4.841},{“text”:”and we are all”,”start”:153.4,”duration”:6.32},{“text”:”together and we’re going to talk”,”start”:156.44,”duration”:5.079},{“text”:”about”,”start”:159.72,”duration”:6.72},{“text”:”raising Sons and”,”start”:161.519,”duration”:7.481},{“text”:”Daughters I’m not going to talk a lot”,”start”:166.44,”duration”:4.519},{“text”:”usually I talk a lot you know before we”,”start”:169,”duration”:5.319},{“text”:”start but I want to start right away”,”start”:170.959,”duration”:6.521},{“text”:”because this is going to be a lively”,”start”:174.319,”duration”:5.84},{“text”:”conversation if you want to join in if”,”start”:177.48,”duration”:4.56},{“text”:”you want to put comments if you want to”,”start”:180.159,”duration”:6.481},{“text”:”put questions in the chat please do so”,”start”:182.04,”duration”:8.88},{“text”:”it’s a very important subject and we’re”,”start”:186.64,”duration”:7.12},{“text”:”going to have a good time but first”,”start”:190.92,”duration”:5.64},{“text”:”before I bring in the first person I”,”start”:193.76,”duration”:8.28},{“text”:”want to tell you all about her her name”,”start”:196.56,”duration”:9.64},{“text”:”is Christy Murray she is a certified”,”start”:202.04,”duration”:8.399},{“text”:”neuro coach and nurse practitioner”,”start”:206.2,”duration”:7.28},{“text”:”she’s dedicated to creating lasting”,”start”:210.439,”duration”:6.841},{“text”:”change in the world by empowering women”,”start”:213.48,”duration”:7.2},{“text”:”all around the world to Define and”,”start”:217.28,”duration”:9.239},{“text”:”defeat and heal from covert narcissistic”,”start”:220.68,”duration”:9.36},{“text”:”abuse and how to establish healthy”,”start”:226.519,”duration”:7.241},{“text”:”boundaries so they can move forward and”,”start”:230.04,”duration”:7.399},{“text”:”thrive in their new found Freedom she”,”start”:233.76,”duration”:6.199},{“text”:”empowers women in their journey of break”,”start”:237.439,”duration”:6.8},{“text”:”the cycle of generational”,”start”:239.959,”duration”:4.28},{“text”:”trauma yeah she uses her coaching”,”start”:244.48,”duration”:5.88},{“text”:”nutritional”,”start”:248.4,”duration”:4.839},{“text”:”endocrinology and the most important”,”start”:250.36,”duration”:7.76},{“text”:”thing the word of God to facilitate”,”start”:253.239,”duration”:7.84},{“text”:”transformation she coaches and through a”,”start”:258.12,”duration”:6.359},{“text”:”series of coaching sessions she equips”,”start”:261.079,”duration”:6.481},{“text”:”women with the tools they need to”,”start”:264.479,”duration”:6.881},{“text”:”uplevel their health their relationships”,”start”:267.56,”duration”:5.639},{“text”:”and overall”,”start”:271.36,”duration”:6.119},{“text”:”well-being she has a deep understanding”,”start”:273.199,”duration”:6.961},{“text”:”of covert narcissism and I really want”,”start”:277.479,”duration”:7.241},{“text”:”to know about that and a passion for”,”start”:280.16,”duration”:9.2},{“text”:”recovery so what I want to do right now”,”start”:284.72,”duration”:7.199},{“text”:”is bring on”,”start”:289.36,”duration”:6.679},{“text”:”Christy hello Christie hi Dr Forman how”,”start”:291.919,”duration”:6.401},{“text”:”are you doing I’m doing fine you just”,”start”:296.039,”duration”:4.641},{“text”:”call me Dr Jan”,”start”:298.32,”duration”:6.56},{“text”:”Dr how are you doing I am doing good”,”start”:300.68,”duration”:6.239},{“text”:”great great tell tell us a little bit”,”start”:304.88,”duration”:6.72},{“text”:”more about you and what you do and what”,”start”:306.919,”duration”:7.241},{“text”:”is covert narcissism and how do you know”,”start”:311.6,”duration”:5.68},{“text”:”about that okay all right I’m going to”,”start”:314.16,”duration”:5.879},{“text”:”try to keep it short so short and sweet”,”start”:317.28,”duration”:6.4},{“text”:”so first for me I am a mother of two and”,”start”:320.039,”duration”:6.28},{“text”:”I have a day job I do work full-time as”,”start”:323.68,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”you have said I work as a nurse”,”start”:326.319,”duration”:6.281},{“text”:”practitioner I love helping women”,”start”:328.36,”duration”:7.36},{“text”:”women and as a”,”start”:332.6,”duration”:7.4},{“text”:”mother I have”,”start”:335.72,”duration”:6.88},{“text”:”um I’m on this mission to help mothers”,”start”:340,”duration”:5.52},{“text”:”become better mothers and have better”,”start”:342.6,”duration”:4.48},{“text”:”relationship with their”,”start”:345.52,”duration”:4.56},{“text”:”children being mother being a mother for”,”start”:347.08,”duration”:6},{“text”:”me is not just about getting pregnant”,”start”:350.08,”duration”:6.6},{“text”:”and giving birth it’s really”,”start”:353.08,”duration”:7.2},{“text”:”racing God-fearing good citizen”,”start”:356.68,”duration”:6.04},{“text”:”and good children of God um it’s our”,”start”:360.28,”duration”:4.24},{“text”:”responsibility not just to feed our”,”start”:362.72,”duration”:4.4},{“text”:”children but to nurture their hearts”,”start”:364.52,”duration”:5.88},{“text”:”their minds and their souls as well and”,”start”:367.12,”duration”:4.4},{“text”:”the covert”,”start”:370.4,”duration”:3.96},{“text”:”narcissism I got really deep into it as”,”start”:371.52,”duration”:6.2},{“text”:”a personal experience is”,”start”:374.36,”duration”:8.48},{“text”:”because through a series of events and”,”start”:377.72,”duration”:7.64},{“text”:”um I would say behaviors that I’ve”,”start”:382.84,”duration”:6.88},{“text”:”noticed through family 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bring”,”start”:608.24,”duration”:4.279},{“text”:”in Margaret Lance so let me tell you a”,”start”:609.48,”duration”:5.68},{“text”:”little bit about”,”start”:612.519,”duration”:5.801},{“text”:”Margaret Margaret is a speaker a”,”start”:615.16,”duration”:7.359},{“text”:”facilitator and a migrant parent coach”,”start”:618.32,”duration”:5.92},{“text”:”and she works with adults and young”,”start”:622.519,”duration”:5.201},{“text”:”people on a wide range of issues”,”start”:624.24,”duration”:7.599},{“text”:”including including raising HIV”,”start”:627.72,”duration”:8.919},{“text”:”awareness and gender based viol violence”,”start”:631.839,”duration”:6.961},{“text”:”she’s fluent in”,”start”:636.639,”duration”:6.361},{“text”:”French Hal fance she applies her”,”start”:638.8,”duration”:5.88},{“text”:”language skills within her role as a”,”start”:643,”duration”:3.8},{“text”:”Community Learning and Development”,”start”:644.68,”duration”:5.76},{“text”:”practitioner within diverse communities”,”start”:646.8,”duration”:8.12},{“text”:”particularly in helping women and their”,”start”:650.44,”duration”:8.04},{“text”:”families she’s The Ambassador in the UK”,”start”:654.92,”duration”:5.24},{“text”:”for my”,”start”:658.48,”duration”:6.2},{“text”:”body is my body program which helps”,”start”:660.16,”duration”:8.799},{“text”:”keeps children safe so let me bring to”,”start”:664.68,”duration”:7.959},{“text”:”you without further Ado from”,”start”:668.959,”duration”:7.601},{“text”:”Scotland Margaret Lance hello”,”start”:672.639,”duration”:7.921},{“text”:”Margaret hello Dr Janice thank you for”,”start”:676.56,”duration”:7},{“text”:”having me how are you I’m doing great”,”start”:680.56,”duration”:6.04},{“text”:”and thank you for being my guest go into”,”start”:683.56,”duration”:7.64},{“text”:”a little bit more about mothers and”,”start”:686.6,”duration”:8.64},{“text”:”daughters and how to keep them”,”start”:691.2,”duration”:7.439},{“text”:”protected from uh I know you work 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for”,”start”:3365.4,”duration”:6.04},{“text”:”you I want you to be safe because I love”,”start”:3368.52,”duration”:6.44},{“text”:”you okay”,”start”:3371.44,”duration”:3.52},{“text”:”Margaret listen and”,”start”:3375.24,”duration”:7.68},{“text”:”communicate very good open and honest”,”start”:3379.24,”duration”:8},{“text”:”communication okay Dr angr I agree”,”start”:3382.92,”duration”:8.52},{“text”:”listen do not judge do not give advice”,”start”:3387.24,”duration”:8.28},{“text”:”let them figure it out let them”,”start”:3391.44,”duration”:5.919},{“text”:”vent”,”start”:3395.52,”duration”:6.519},{“text”:”Adonna um I would just say you know”,”start”:3397.359,”duration”:8.161},{“text”:”listen and respect the personality that”,”start”:3402.039,”duration”:6.241},{“text”:”they are shaping into a lot of different”,”start”:3405.52,”duration”:4.279},{“text”:”personalities and you just got to know”,”start”:3408.28,”duration”:4.12},{“text”:”how to make them the best of 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in”,”start”:3446.68,”duration”:4.56},{“text”:”their early days Maxine I didn’t mean to”,”start”:3449.16,”duration”:4},{“text”:”cut you off finish I just wanted to put”,”start”:3451.24,”duration”:5.2},{“text”:”that comment in there no problem no”,”start”:3453.16,”duration”:4.84},{“text”:”problem”,”start”:3456.44,”duration”:5.72},{“text”:”okay and Caroline Daniel sex education”,”start”:3458,”duration”:7.039},{“text”:”in Canada used to be at seven years old”,”start”:3462.16,”duration”:6.439},{“text”:”12 or 14 is too late parents especially”,”start”:3465.039,”duration”:6.161},{“text”:”mothers do play a role and of course”,”start”:3468.599,”duration”:5.561},{“text”:”listen without judging with patience and”,”start”:3471.2,”duration”:7.8},{“text”:”speak using the truth terms well done”,”start”:3474.16,”duration”:6.32},{“text”:”well we got a”,”start”:3479,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”minute the time just goes by I want to”,”start”:3480.48,”duration”:7.92},{“text”:”thank all of you for the value 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into we”,”start”:3531.2,”duration”:8.56},{“text”:”just a little bit on on narcissism we’re”,”start”:3535.64,”duration”:7.479},{“text”:”going to Dev deeper into that I want to”,”start”:3539.76,”duration”:6.559},{“text”:”thank you all uh it’s been wonderful”,”start”:3543.119,”duration”:6.24},{“text”:”actually we need it almost like two”,”start”:3546.319,”duration”:5.8},{“text”:”hours so you all have a beautiful”,”start”:3549.359,”duration”:5.641},{“text”:”blessed rest of your evening I put”,”start”:3552.119,”duration”:7.121},{“text”:”something in the private chat read it”,”start”:3555,”duration”:7.48},{“text”:”Margaret go to bed it’s it’s what time”,”start”:3559.24,”duration”:8.359},{“text”:”is it 1 am really maret go to bed”,”start”:3562.48,”duration”:5.119},{“text”:”wow it’s been a wonderful pleasure being”,”start”:3568.16,”duration”:5.639},{“text”:”part of this conversation which is so”,”start”:3571.28,”duration”:7.279},{“text”:”close to my heart and relationships M Dr”,”start”:3573.799,”duration”:7.721},{“text”:”Janice thank you so much thank you thank”,”start”:3578.559,”duration”:5.321},{“text”:”you all thank you and I say I would”,”start”:3581.52,”duration”:5.12},{“text”:”invite myself thank you”,”start”:3583.88,”duration”:5.12},{“text”:”all oh this has just been so wonderful”,”start”:3586.64,”duration”:4.399},{“text”:”and the time went by so fast I want to”,”start”:3589,”duration”:5.599},{“text”:”thank all of you all for for watching”,”start”:3591.039,”duration”:7.32},{“text”:”and happy Mother’s Day if you haven’t”,”start”:3594.599,”duration”:7.841},{“text”:”talked to your mama call your mother I”,”start”:3598.359,”duration”:5.841},{“text”:”will see you again next week on”,”start”:3602.44,”duration”:4.2},{“text”:”relationship matters TV”,”start”:3604.2,”duration”:5.96},{“text”:”remember life is all about relationships”,”start”:3606.64,”duration”:7.28},{“text”:”there all kinds of relationships and all”,”start”:3610.16,”duration”:6.879},{“text”:”kinds of matter relationship matters see”,”start”:3613.92,”duration”:7.639},{“text”:”you again next week”,”start”:3617.039,”duration”:4.52},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:3622.14,”duration”:60.18},{“text”:”oh”,”start”:3686.079,”duration”:11.051},{“text”:”[Music]”,”start”:3687.9,”duration”:9.23}]