Mothers Day Show

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this”,”start”:721.62,”duration”:6.779},{“text”:”time oh wow okay so first I introduced”,”start”:723.899,”duration”:6.241},{“text”:”Reverend Jeanette Jordan”,”start”:728.399,”duration”:4.861},{“text”:”this is the founder pastor of Journey To”,”start”:730.14,”duration”:5.12},{“text”:”The Cross Ministry a”,”start”:733.26,”duration”:4.8},{“text”:”multi-denominational church providing”,”start”:735.26,”duration”:4.84},{“text”:”visual worship experiences for”,”start”:738.06,”duration”:4.44},{“text”:”caregivers and their loved ones who”,”start”:740.1,”duration”:4.739},{“text”:”cannot get to the church building she is”,”start”:742.5,”duration”:5.279},{“text”:”the wife of 60 years to Dr Robert a”,”start”:744.839,”duration”:6.781},{“text”:”Jordan a retired pediatrician diagnosed”,”start”:747.779,”duration”:6.661},{“text”:”with dementia and Alzheimer’s in 2016.”,”start”:751.62,”duration”:5.399},{“text”:”she serves as an Alzheimer’s Community”,”start”:754.44,”duration”:6.18},{“text”:”at Community 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because”,”start”:1012.86,”duration”:6.919},{“text”:”all of you have sons is it different”,”start”:1015.62,”duration”:7.8},{“text”:”raising Sons”,”start”:1019.779,”duration”:7.261},{“text”:”and raising daughters”,”start”:1023.42,”duration”:3.62},{“text”:”absolutely absolutely absolutely”,”start”:1028.64,”duration”:5.88},{“text”:”yeah what’s the difference”,”start”:1032.24,”duration”:6.66},{“text”:”yes I heard someone say yesterday where”,”start”:1034.52,”duration”:7.86},{“text”:”I was but someone pointed out that it”,”start”:1038.9,”duration”:5.48},{“text”:”was so much in here”,”start”:1042.38,”duration”:4.74},{“text”:”raising their son from their daughter”,”start”:1044.38,”duration”:5.08},{“text”:”and all the women were nodding their”,”start”:1047.12,”duration”:4.92},{“text”:”heads and I think it’s because when you”,”start”:1049.46,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”have a daughter you feel a 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culture”,”start”:2357.94,”duration”:7.32},{“text”:”going so she got to experience a lot of”,”start”:2360.94,”duration”:6.6},{“text”:”uh professional”,”start”:2365.26,”duration”:6.54},{“text”:”things that be professional people and”,”start”:2367.54,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”um”,”start”:2371.8,”duration”:3.96},{“text”:”my other girl so my well no at least”,”start”:2372.52,”duration”:6.66},{“text”:”Allison and Krista looked at that and”,”start”:2375.76,”duration”:5.579},{“text”:”they as they were growing began to”,”start”:2379.18,”duration”:4.439},{“text”:”compare what they didn’t have”,”start”:2381.339,”duration”:4.26},{“text”:”with what Drew has”,”start”:2383.619,”duration”:5.101},{“text”:”and so of course my communication skills”,”start”:2385.599,”duration”:5.161},{“text”:”had to be on point because I had to let”,”start”:2388.72,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”them know I was a product of of my”,”start”:2390.76,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”environment so what I knew about 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we”,”start”:2575.44,”duration”:6.54},{“text”:”won’t talk about I was getting ready I”,”start”:2579.52,”duration”:3.96},{“text”:”know”,”start”:2581.98,”duration”:4.4},{“text”:”she’s in her house”,”start”:2583.48,”duration”:2.9},{“text”:”[Laughter]”,”start”:2588.32,”duration”:3.51},{“text”:”that big gap because you could actually”,”start”:2592.06,”duration”:4.78},{“text”:”be my son’s daughter”,”start”:2594.4,”duration”:4.86},{“text”:”[Laughter]”,”start”:2596.84,”duration”:3.2},{“text”:”um”,”start”:2599.26,”duration”:3.059},{“text”:”so I mean that’s the difference that’s”,”start”:2600.04,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”that’s the Gap and so of course Drew”,”start”:2602.319,”duration”:4.921},{“text”:”Drew Drew grew up and adila grew up with”,”start”:2605.02,”duration”:4.319},{“text”:”the technology and all of the new things”,”start”:2607.24,”duration”:5.579},{“text”:”that uh we have to learn about where uh”,”start”:2609.339,”duration”:5.941},{“text”:”the other kids came from old school and”,”start”:2612.819,”duration”:4.321},{“text”:”so they like I said there was an old”,”start”:2615.28,”duration”:5.76},{“text”:”school way of uh parenting then”,”start”:2617.14,”duration”:6.179},{“text”:”uh that made parenting a little”,”start”:2621.04,”duration”:4.319},{“text”:”different I heard someone say about”,”start”:2623.319,”duration”:4.8},{“text”:”their son uh she had to let him know who”,”start”:2625.359,”duration”:5.181},{“text”:”was who”,”start”:2628.119,”duration”:2.421},{“text”:”baby Carol it was because at age 14″,”start”:2635.7,”duration”:6.52},{“text”:”Brian thought he could box his mom he”,”start”:2639.06,”duration”:5.32},{“text”:”thought Mom I just let you spank me just”,”start”:2642.22,”duration”:4.56},{“text”:”cause you know I don’t want to hurt you”,”start”:2644.38,”duration”:5.219},{“text”:”and I said excuse me”,”start”:2646.78,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”so I pushed the furniture back in the”,”start”:2649.599,”duration”:3.901},{“text”:”living 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nephew that I I raise”,”start”:2683.26,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”but he was just a different kind of a a”,”start”:2686.38,”duration”:4.199},{“text”:”kind of a kid kind of low-key didn’t”,”start”:2688.54,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”give me any problems uh really not real”,”start”:2690.579,”duration”:4.981},{“text”:”social more of an introvert you know”,”start”:2693.22,”duration”:4.8},{“text”:”more of a homebody uh I had to kind of”,”start”:2695.56,”duration”:4.38},{“text”:”push him out to say no you got to get”,”start”:2698.02,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”out of here and go visit a friend or”,”start”:2699.94,”duration”:4.379},{“text”:”something so I had just a multiplicity”,”start”:2701.8,”duration”:6.18},{“text”:”of Heritage styles that I just can’t put”,”start”:2704.319,”duration”:7.141},{“text”:”it all in one bucket because I’ve”,”start”:2707.98,”duration”:5.7},{“text”:”experienced a little of this and a”,”start”:2711.46,”duration”:5.76},{“text”:”little of that in all of it wow and and”,”start”:2713.68,”duration”:6.72},{“text”:”that’s why I I wouldn’t really wanted”,”start”:2717.22,”duration”:6.54},{“text”:”you uh on the show with me because I”,”start”:2720.4,”duration”:6.78},{“text”:”well I knew that you know Allison and”,”start”:2723.76,”duration”:6.12},{“text”:”then Drew you know and I knew there was”,”start”:2727.18,”duration”:6},{“text”:”this this big age range and then let’s”,”start”:2729.88,”duration”:5.76},{“text”:”let’s we’re gonna Carol I want to talk”,”start”:2733.18,”duration”:5.78},{“text”:”about parenting style so I have a a”,”start”:2735.64,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”comment here”,”start”:2738.96,”duration”:6.159},{“text”:”from um and I’m trying trying to show it”,”start”:2740.92,”duration”:8.22},{“text”:”uh Gwendolyn Dunbar she says I truly”,”start”:2745.119,”duration”:6.361},{“text”:”agree with parenting”,”start”:2749.14,”duration”:5.459},{“text”:”with parenting should not be dictatorial”,”start”:2751.48,”duration”:6.72},{“text”:”but with feeling understanding and”,”start”:2754.599,”duration”:7.26},{“text”:”realizing each child is different I saw”,”start”:2758.2,”duration”:6.899},{“text”:”that with my mother and I I saw that”,”start”:2761.859,”duration”:5.521},{“text”:”with my mother and I watched her”,”start”:2765.099,”duration”:7.22},{“text”:”learning process parenting is not a”,”start”:2767.38,”duration”:7.8},{“text”:”one-size-fits-all agreed absolutely”,”start”:2772.319,”duration”:4.621},{“text”:”perfectly said”,”start”:2775.18,”duration”:5.82},{“text”:”so so uh Carol”,”start”:2776.94,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”um”,”start”:2781,”duration”:3.9},{“text”:”what is your parenting style is it old”,”start”:2781.98,”duration”:3.879},{“text”:”school”,”start”:2784.9,”duration”:4.14},{“text”:”or is it new school”,”start”:2785.859,”duration”:6.181},{“text”:”well I I wholeheartedly agree with”,”start”:2789.04,”duration”:5.94},{“text”:”Gwendolyn Dunbar each child is different”,”start”:2792.04,”duration”:6.72},{“text”:”so your parenting style has to fit each”,”start”:2794.98,”duration”:6.24},{“text”:”child you can’t treat each child the”,”start”:2798.76,”duration”:3.24},{“text”:”same”,”start”:2801.22,”duration”:3.72},{“text”:”so I don’t know if that’s old school new”,”start”:2802,”duration”:6.48},{“text”:”school or any school but that’s that’s”,”start”:2804.94,”duration”:6.26},{“text”:”pretty much how I raised my children”,”start”:2808.48,”duration”:5.22},{“text”:”because they were all different I did”,”start”:2811.2,”duration”:5.5},{“text”:”have one one daughter who who was very”,”start”:2813.7,”duration”:5.58},{“text”:”very fair skinned you met her I think”,”start”:2816.7,”duration”:6.899},{“text”:”yeah and uh so she was in school and”,”start”:2819.28,”duration”:6.48},{“text”:”when I would go to pick her up her”,”start”:2823.599,”duration”:4.02},{“text”:”friends would ask her they’d look at me”,”start”:2825.76,”duration”:3.54},{“text”:”and look at her and they’d ask her if”,”start”:2827.619,”duration”:3.841},{“text”:”she was adopted”,”start”:2829.3,”duration”:5.88},{“text”:”because she was so fair-skinned and I’m”,”start”:2831.46,”duration”:7.859},{“text”:”so dark skinned and uh she was more”,”start”:2835.18,”duration”:7.439},{“text”:”outgoing than my older daughter you know”,”start”:2839.319,”duration”:5.821},{“text”:”I used to like to dress them up and comb”,”start”:2842.619,”duration”:4.261},{“text”:”their hair and put bangs in her hair”,”start”:2845.14,”duration”:4.26},{“text”:”well she didn’t want bangs”,”start”:2846.88,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”and the other daughter she didn’t care”,”start”:2849.4,”duration”:5.699},{“text”:”you know so I had to you know adjust”,”start”:2851.56,”duration”:6.059},{“text”:”that okay you don’t want bangs Okay I”,”start”:2855.099,”duration”:5.461},{“text”:”can’t let you wear bangs one one time”,”start”:2857.619,”duration”:5.341},{“text”:”she it was the winter time when she came”,”start”:2860.56,”duration”:5.64},{“text”:”downstairs in a bikini and some uh snow”,”start”:2862.96,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”boots”,”start”:2866.2,”duration”:6.24},{“text”:”and uh so what I learned from that is”,”start”:2867.94,”duration”:8.399},{“text”:”she’s she’s more my more creative child”,”start”:2872.44,”duration”:7.44},{“text”:”more right brain and my oldest daughter”,”start”:2876.339,”duration”:7.141},{“text”:”she’s more left brain more linear so of”,”start”:2879.88,”duration”:6.66},{“text”:”course I had to treat treat each one of”,”start”:2883.48,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”them differently so I wholeheartedly”,”start”:2886.54,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”agree with um”,”start”:2888.46,”duration”:5.22},{“text”:”with Gwendolyn”,”start”:2891.22,”duration”:5.599},{“text”:”so I have a question that came in a text”,”start”:2893.68,”duration”:6.48},{“text”:”and uh so I want each one of you to”,”start”:2896.819,”duration”:5.081},{“text”:”answer this and since uh we’re talking”,”start”:2900.16,”duration”:3.72},{“text”:”with you cara I want you to answer this”,”start”:2901.9,”duration”:6},{“text”:”first what is the best and worst part of”,”start”:2903.88,”duration”:6.979},{“text”:”being a mother”,”start”:2907.9,”duration”:2.959},{“text”:”well”,”start”:2912,”duration”:4.619},{“text”:”the best part”,”start”:2913.56,”duration”:6.759},{“text”:”for me is just being a mother just being”,”start”:2916.619,”duration”:6.7},{“text”:”there I was blessed that I was able to”,”start”:2920.319,”duration”:5.52},{“text”:”be a stay-at-home mom”,”start”:2923.319,”duration”:4.621},{“text”:”because you know my husband he made”,”start”:2925.839,”duration”:4.441},{“text”:”pretty good money so I was able to stay”,”start”:2927.94,”duration”:5.52},{“text”:”at home and raise my own children and”,”start”:2930.28,”duration”:6.78},{“text”:”put my own self into them so that was”,”start”:2933.46,”duration”:5.879},{“text”:”one thing that was really really a good”,”start”:2937.06,”duration”:5.34},{“text”:”thing for me now you said the best and”,”start”:2939.339,”duration”:5.901},{“text”:”the worst part”,”start”:2942.4,”duration”:2.84},{“text”:”I really don’t have a worse part okay”,”start”:2945.28,”duration”:6.66},{“text”:”because I mean even though you know no”,”start”:2948.28,”duration”:5.94},{“text”:”matter what we’ve gone through”,”start”:2951.94,”duration”:5.639},{“text”:”it’s all been just a blessing learning”,”start”:2954.22,”duration”:4.2},{“text”:”them”,”start”:2957.579,”duration”:3.78},{“text”:”and being able to steer them you know”,”start”:2958.42,”duration”:6.179},{“text”:”and just being able to I just consider”,”start”:2961.359,”duration”:6.601},{“text”:”myself blessed to have been their mother”,”start”:2964.599,”duration”:5.461},{“text”:”you know God could have given them to”,”start”:2967.96,”duration”:5.34},{“text”:”anybody but he gave them to me so I”,”start”:2970.06,”duration”:5.7},{“text”:”don’t really feel that there’s a for me”,”start”:2973.3,”duration”:4.5},{“text”:”that it was not”,”start”:2975.76,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”in my experience that there was not”,”start”:2977.8,”duration”:6.24},{“text”:”because my like I said before my girls I”,”start”:2980.74,”duration”:5.16},{“text”:”mean they were so respectful and they’re”,”start”:2984.04,”duration”:5.1},{“text”:”still that way today and my son you know”,”start”:2985.9,”duration”:6.3},{“text”:”he’s he low-key tries to get my opinion”,”start”:2989.14,”duration”:5.219},{“text”:”on things he’ll say well what do you”,”start”:2992.2,”duration”:3.54},{“text”:”think about this and what are you”,”start”:2994.359,”duration”:3.421},{“text”:”thinking he tries to play it off but I”,”start”:2995.74,”duration”:4.68},{“text”:”know he’s asking me for himself”,”start”:2997.78,”duration”:4.079},{“text”:”so”,”start”:3000.42,”duration”:4.26},{“text”:”um you know I appreciate that so I don’t”,”start”:3001.859,”duration”:6.121},{“text”:”have any bad any bad uh things about”,”start”:3004.68,”duration”:6.6},{“text”:”being a mother I absolutely love it and”,”start”:3007.98,”duration”:6.48},{“text”:”I wish I’d had six instead of three”,”start”:3011.28,”duration”:6},{“text”:”all righty now what uh what about you”,”start”:3014.46,”duration”:6.06},{“text”:”Brenda what’s the best part and worst”,”start”:3017.28,”duration”:4.319},{“text”:”part”,”start”:3020.52,”duration”:5.04},{“text”:”uh I think the best part for me is just”,”start”:3021.599,”duration”:5.821},{“text”:”seeing her happy”,”start”:3025.56,”duration”:4.259},{“text”:”no matter what you know as long as she’s”,”start”:3027.42,”duration”:4.98},{“text”:”happy that’s great with me”,”start”:3029.819,”duration”:5.641},{“text”:”um the worst part is seeing her struggle”,”start”:3032.4,”duration”:5.28},{“text”:”to get through things that”,”start”:3035.46,”duration”:5.52},{“text”:”I can’t fix for her that if I could fix”,”start”:3037.68,”duration”:6.3},{“text”:”it it would be done no problem but 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